Sustainable Wedding Ideas

A few weeks ago, the culmination of a year and a half's worth of planning came in went in one beautiful, amazingly fun blur. My husband and I went back to my home state of South Carolina and got married in gorgeous, romantic Charleston. From the start, we knew we wanted to try to make more sustainable choices when it came to planning our wedding but getting married has turned into such a business that the pressure to have a perfect event can get in the way. 

I didn't want the day to feel so gluttonous, so with a lot of creativity and plenty of patience, we managed to create an event that felt completely personal and special without a tremendous amount of waste. I thought I'd share a few of the choices we made with the hope of giving other eco-conscious brides a few good ideas!

The Date

Since our guests were flying from all over the country, we wanted to make sure they could turn the wedding weekend into a little vacation that allowed them to enjoy Charleston and the surrounding coast. We chose to have our wedding on a Friday to give everyone that opportunity and were pleasantly surprised to find that most venues are actually more affordable to rent on Friday as opposed to Saturday. We also decided to get married in the Fall, one of the less popular seasons, which also dropped the price and made the Southern heat much more bearable. 

The Venue

Cypress trees and spanish moss feel like home to me and we knew finding that classic, beautiful Lowcountry setting would mean we'd need to buy/rent/make a lot less stuff to dress up the space. We also wanted a place where we could have both the ceremony and the reception to eliminate a big, gas-guzzling caravan of vehicles from site to site. 

We couldn't have found a more perfect backdrop than Magnolia Garden's Carriage House, which only needed a few personal details to make the event really special. A few vintage lanterns hanging from the trees rooted our ceremony site and the landscape was already so beautiful, we opted to keep it simple.




The Decor

It is shocking just how much stuff you need to host a 160 person wedding. From the tables and chairs to the dinnerware and centerpieces, your budget and patience can quickly get overrun. We knew we didn't want to have 20 tables full of flowers that would only get tossed at the end of the evening, so I had the idea to locally source produce for the table displays so we could donate all of it to the Lowcountry Food Bank, a Charleston non-profit that feeds hundreds of children and seniors each week. There were even cute little pots of herbs. 

We ran with the agriculture theme and my husband made really awesome signs for the tables inspired by vintage product labels. Guests could read about the non-profit while they were finding their seats at the "peach" table and we found that guests were really inspired by the mission and enjoyed the purposeful decor. It felt really good to know that very little on the table would go to waste.




For a more festive touch, I made this easy DIY fringe bunting that made the rustic space party ready. The super simple tutorial is here. The best part is that we kept these to reuse again and again at home for parties and events. 

  

We tried to limit how many items we bought new for the wedding and used great resources like my Grandmother, who's an avid collector of all things vintage and beautiful. She lent us wicker lawn furniture, this cool old radio and lots of little decor items that made the site feel warm and inviting without buying virtually anything brand new.

 

We also thought it would be great to incorporate our baby pictures in a creative way around the space but we couldn't use pins, nails or anything that would damage the historic building. I decided to make good use of the thick posts running the length of the Carriage House and bought some gold cord, which we wrapped around the poles and clipped family pictures on.



The final decor touch was inspired by family lore, a great story about how my great-grandfather and great-grandmother got together. My great-grandmother was being courted by the town minister but had fallen in love with my great-grandfather, so they decided to elope against the wishes of their families. The story goes that my great-grandfather parked his truck outside a church window where my great-grandmother was waiting. Notoriously fearless, she hopped out of the church window into the truck below and they drove to the courthouse to wed. At some point during the ceremony, a truck pulled into the courthouse parking lot and my great-grandmother was convinced it was her father and bolted into the woods. It wasn't angry dad after all and once they retrieved her from the woods, they finished making it official and spent the next year trying to make up with their families. Against all odds, they were happily married for 76 wonderful, loving years.

It was this story that made me decide to opt out of the traditional photo booth (although they're so fun!) and save on paper, ink and all the props so that we could bring this 1930s mint green Ford truck (dubbed Sweet Pea) to the site for the guests to check out and take pictures with. This was, in hindsight, one of our best decisions. It set the tone for our wedding as it greeted people at the front of the Carriage House and also gave us some awesome photos that will always remind me of my great-grandparents love story and a marriage that I so admired and aspired to when I was growing up.




The Flowers

Floral costs is really where your wedding budget can get upended. With a florist quote in the thousands of dollars, I decided to perfect my flower tying skills and make my own bouquets and boutonnieres. There are a million tutorials about this online and it's remarkably easy to do, even for the inexperienced. I found an amazing wholesale florist in Charleston and was able to hand pick our flowers the day before the event and get all the supplies in one place.

On the morning of the wedding, my wonderful bridesmaids woke up a little early and spent an hour and a half helping me tie bouquets as we sat on the porch of our rented beach house. Although it was a little more stressful than having someone else do it, I was so pleased with how the flowers turned out and it only cost a manageable $240 total. Other small details like this thrift shop flower girl basket that was re-painted and decorated my grandmother were perfect compliments.



The Attire

When searching for a dress, I was surprised by how difficult it was to find something that wasn't made in China. I lucked up when I found my Claire Pettibone dress, which was manufactured domestically in California. The fact that it took far fewer resources to make and ship only made me love it more. There are some truly exquisite dress designers working domestically, so it's worth it to do some research and it also helps narrow your search tremendously, which is a blessing in disguise since dress shopping can be an overwhelming experience!



It was also important to me that my bridesmaids buy dresses that they loved and would wear again instead of something that was a one-time use, so I gave them free reign to pick out whatever amazing dress they wanted to get for the wedding as long as it was a metallic color. These stylish ladies did not disappoint and all of them got a dress that they felt comfortable in and made them look like a million bucks. Super hot, right? ;) 



My groom opted for a suit that he knew he would wear again and again and had yellow bow ties custom made for all of his groomsmen. Our Brooklyn-based seamstress even went with us to the fabric store to pick the perfect shade for the project and they doubled as great gifts for the guys.

 

The Food

Every Southerner knows the value of amazing comfort food, so our only real pre-requisite for the wedding was an awesome dinner that we could actually sit down and enjoy. Instead of picking a fancy, expensive caterer, we opted to work with a great food truck called Pot Kettle Black that uses locally sourced ingredients and put the most emphasis on the food itself. They did a bang up job on our shrimp and grits, hand carved prime rib and plenty of local roasted veggies.

Buffet style can mean a lot of wasted food and plated meals didn't give our guests a chance to try all the items if they wanted to, so we chose a family-style presentation. This gave guests the chance to actually share a meal and an excuse to mingle with those at their table.

The Bling

Perhaps the biggest decision of all is the wedding band selection, as you'll be wearing these for a long time to come. It was very important to us that our rings be made by local jewelers using ethically sourced metals. My engagement ring is an Art Deco beauty and I loved that the stone came from a conflict-free mine and that the ring had some history. We purchased our wedding bands with the same ethics in mind, so we had the groom's made at Brooklyn's own In God We Trust and mine by a local designer that owns the beautiful jewelry store Catbird.


The final flourish of bridal accessories were all handmade or borrowed. My freshwater pearl earrings were a last-minute Etsy purchase mailed promptly by an awesome designer and my bracelet belonged to my late grandmother, whose spirit I was happy to carry with me for the event. All the bridesmaids' earrings were a gift from me and locally made, as well. 



We couldn't have asked for a wedding that was more "us" and we had what was easily the best night of our lives. Although non-traditional (the girls and I actually danced down the aisle to The Black Keys' Everlasting Light, much to the delight of our wedding guests), I think our guests knew that this wedding was exactly what we wanted and represented our union and the values we care about perfectly. Some of the sustainable aspects were easy and others took more work but we left our wedding feeling good about the event and knew we did everything we could to lighten its environmental footprint.



Many, many warm thanks goes out to our incredible vendors. If you're ever planning an event in the Charleston area, these are the folks to seek out.  Amelia + Dan Photography, Ooh Events and Pot Kettle Black.

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Sustainable Styling Secrets | DIY Honeycomb

Working on our new photo shoot was definitely one of the highlights of my HAVEN journey so far. Turning all of our raw ingredients into these gorgeous vignettes takes so much creativity and effort, but the process yielded many awesome DIY decor ideas that I can't wait to use again. One of my favorite projects was creating faux honeycomb for our Polish shot. 

The texture is so awesome and I could see it working really well at a dinner party as part of the table decor. A few pieces broken onto a charcuterie platter that's served with a local honey would be a really beautiful touch. Here's how we did it!

 

Before you get started, please note that beeswax is a type of natural fuel, so you're going to want to melt it slowly at a low temperature and monitor its progress at all times, never leaving it unattended. Beeswax is tough to get off of surfaces, so be sure to use tools you don't mind messing up. If you don't have these items, check out your local thrift shop to see if you can source them secondhand. 

You'll need:

  • Beeswax
    • Pellets are the easiest way to work with beeswax but one ounce blocks are also pretty handy, too.
  • Shallow Metal Pan
    • Cookie sheets will work best if you want a really large piece.
  • Bubble Wrap
    • Enough to cover the surface of your pan.
  • Parchment Paper
    • Cover your work surface and anything you don't want to get waxy.
  • Double Boiler
    • Crock pots also work really well to melt wax, although it will forever become your wax crock pot so make sure you don't mind. 
    • I make my double boiler using a dedicated pot for boiling water and a metal melting pitcher that has a handle I can hang over the side of the pot. The handle helps the pitcher sit in the boiling water without tipping. It's also much easier to pour beeswax from a pitcher, so this is the method I suggest.
While you're prepping your work space, put your pot of water on to boil or set your crock pot to its lowest setting. Cover your work surface in parchment paper to protect it from spilled wax. Also line your metal pan with a layer of parchment paper if you'd prefer it not to get waxy. Then, use one layer of bubble wrap to cover the pan's surface. Place the bubble wrap with the bubbles facing up, as those are going to give you the texture you're after.

After your water's boiling or your crock pot has gotten hot, place as much beeswax as you think you'll need into your melting vessel. Don't worry if you don't melt enough beeswax to cover your surface completely the first time because you can melt and pour in rounds. As your wax is melting, continually monitor its progress and keep the heat very low.

Once the wax is golden and completely liquid, remove from heat and allow it to cool for 2-3 minutes. Put on your protective gloves and then you're ready to pour. To make a sturdier sheet of comb, pour 1/2" wax over bubble wrap. As you can tell from my wax below, it doesn't have to be perfect.



Leave the wax to cool for 30 minutes or so, then carefully flip the sheet over (a flat, parchment-coated surface is best to work on for large sheets). While the wax is still just a bit warm, peel the bubble wrap away and, voila, faux honeycomb! So pretty, so easy.

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Kayce Cleans | Advice for the Sustainable Home | Vol. 2

We dedicate our new column to a gentleman in Brooklyn just looking to deep clean his kitchen. They're both great questions and good chores for the Spring to do list. They also seem a lot more annoying to fix than they actually are, which is always a nice surprise.

Have your own home project question? Email me at advice@havenclean.com.

Kayce, I need your help on two cleaning projects. First, I have some scorch marks on the bottom of an enameled cast iron skillet. I have tried the scrub and I have scrubbed quite a lot but those stains won't come out. Is all lost?

The steady darkening of the bottom of our favorite pan is definitely one of the most common kitchen annoyances. While I'm in the camp that a little patina on a well-loved pan can actually look great, it's good to keep it down to a minimum so you don't end up with unsalvageable cookware...

The best tip I have for this is prevention. Thoroughly cleaning pans with a good soap, scouring powder and fine steel wool will keep them in good shape. It's annoying to do after you've cooked a big dinner, but that's why I love the rule that the cook doesn't have to do the dishes. Once the stains become etched into the enamel and repeatedly heated and cooled, they're almost impossible to get off completely, so the best you can hope for is to lessen their appearance, which is what I'll try to help you with today.

My favorite thing to do for this chore is make a soft scrub by blending Soap with Scrub. The fruit acids, essential oils and abrasiveness of the powder really eat away at those baked-on food oils.

To start, pour two tablespoons of Scrub in a bowl. 

Pour a teaspoon or two of Soap on top.

Stir until it makes a paste and the mixture begins to foam a little.

Apply the soft scrub to the entire surface of pan. Just use your hands. No harsh chemicals in these bottles!

Leave the paste to work for 30 minutes or so. 

Then, using steel wool, a little extra Scrub and hot water (plus plenty of elbow grease), start scouring. This is how far I got with about 10 minutes of work, so another round of soaking and scrubbing should remove most of the remaining spots. The soft scrub does a great job of shining up the steel, too.

If you're looking to clean the inside of a pan, cover the bottom with about 1/4" of baking soda, fill pan to brim with water and let it boil for 15 minutes. This should loosen stains and help whiten the enamel. Then use this same soft scrub recipe to finish cleaning.

On to the next one...

Second, I used my coffee grinder as a spice grinder and now the coffee grinder seems yellow and smells like the spice mix after several washes.

Mmm, cumin coffee! I recently ran into this problem with my food processor after I made something particularly aromatic in it. Luckily, this is an easy job, which is a relief after that pan workout you just got. You'll need uncooked rice, baking soda and/or coarse sea salt

  • Pour all the ingredients into the machine and grind, pulsing repeatedly. 
  • Leave the mixture in machine for an hour or so.
  • Pulse through the machine again and remove. 
  • Clean and dry the grinder.

If there's still any odor, you can try grinding a piece of bread. The stickiness of the bread glues itself to spices that might be hiding out in the crannies. Pulse a fresh mixture of rice, salt and baking soda through the machine afterward and you should have a very fresh grinder. Wash it, dry it, then treat yourself to a nice cup of spice-free joe.

Great questions - thanks for writing in!

Happy Spring and happy scrubbing!

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Kayce Cleans | Advice for the Sustainable Home | Vol. 1

As an advice column enthusiast myself, I'm very excited to introduce my own column Kayce Cleans, where I'll be dispensing sustainable tips for cleaning up life's dirty little messes. 

From stubborn stains to grubby partners to pointers for fixing, decorating and organizing your space: give me your home challenge and I'll try to help. Email your questions to advice@havenclean.com. Now let's hit the deck!

Just in time for us to hit the refresh button for Spring, my first column is dedicated to deep cleaning upholstery, dealing with all of Fluffy's fluff and finally getting rid of little things previous tenants leave behind. Fur-st things first...

How can I stay on top of the cat hair? Just any tips whatsoever would be helpful. We Swiffer the place every couple of weeks, but it's just everywhere and we have completely failed to keep up with it.

Furballs! Animals provide so many benefits that totally outweigh the mess they leave behind but, oy, the mess part can be really annoying. The thing that will make the biggest improvement in your life is a really excellent air purifier. Be prepared to spend money ($200-400) on a good one but it'll be a life-changing purchase. Not only will it suck hair and dander out of the air before it lands all over your stuff, it'll also filter allergens, germs, mold, viruses and any unpleasant odors. I can't say enough about the benefits! 

When shopping, you'll want to pay attention to what size room the air purifier is built to filter and if the purifier will require expensive filter replacements. I have a RabbitAir purifier and chose it because it's powerful, incredibly quiet, doesn't require expensive filter replacements and is a nice, streamlined machine. 

On a similar front, a really incredible vacuum can also make the clean-up a million times easier. Dyson vacuums, while expensive, are incredible machines that will impress (and horrify) you by what they pick up. They make a pet-specific model with a variety of de-furring accessories and I've heard very positive feedback about its effectiveness. Also, to help with these larger expenses, check your credit card rewards to see if you can apply your points toward gift cards to places like Home Depot; that's how we got our Dyson and didn't pay a cent extra for it!

Finally, a less expensive life-saver is a special pet fur rake called the Furminator. This thing lives up to its name, as I've seen it take an entire shopping bag full of fur off of one animal. It's a fine-tooth comb that's much different from traditional brushes because it digs very deep into the underfur of the animal and pulls away an incredible amount of loose hair that hasn't been shed yet. Brush your animals once or twice a month and you're going to be shocked what you come away with. That's a TON of fur that won't ultimately end up all over your house!

How do you clean a fabric sofa? Or just, refresh the material a bit?

It can be intimidating to clean a fabric sofa that's had some wear but it's not an unbearable chore and, best of all, no harsh chemicals are needed. Who wants to cozy up to a big patch of Resolve?

First off, deodorize the sofa with lots of baking soda. I like to make a little "shaker" for jobs like this. I place a cup or so of baking soda into a mason jar that has a two-piece lid and add 30 or so drops of my favorite essential oil. Then I top the jar with a square of parchment paper and, using just the rim part of the two-piece lid, press the parchment paper down over the top of the jar and screw on the rim to secure, leaving the paper taut. Shake the baking soda/essential oil mix vigorously to blend.

Then, using a fork, quickly jab decent-sized holes into your parchment paper.


And shake, shake, shake all over the sofa fabric. Remove your cushions and spread the mixture over every square inch, even the innards. Leave for a few hours or even overnight to let the baking soda absorb odor and transfer the oil's scent. Then vacuum well.


Now to clean the fabric. Grab some gentle soap (castile soap is perfect for this) but avoid detergent soaps like those you would use for your laundry, as they're too harsh and don't rinse easily. Mix a couple capfuls of liquid soap (or melt a little bit of gentle bar soap) in a bowl of warm water, making sure it's nice and sudsy. Dip your clean rag into the mixture and wring out excess water. Using some elbow grease, use your soapy rag to work the nap of the fabric well and in every direction, rinsing your rag periodically with clean water from the sink and re-dipping in the soap mixture as you go. This will remove the majority of surface dirt. Finish by rinsing your rag with clean water and go over the couch completely with the damp rag, removing any residual soap.

If you have stubborn stains, trying using a more concentrated mixture of soap and water on the stain. Vegetable glycerine is also an excellent stain solvent and is really easy to find. (HAVEN's castile soap already has vegetable glycerine in it and is effective on greasy fabric stains.) Mix one part soap and one part glycerine with three parts water and dab the solution onto the stain. Let sit for a 10 minutes and dab again with a clean, damp rag to remove stain. Try not to rub the fabric, as it will only push the stain deeper. Once you're satisfied the stain is gone, remove excess moisture by pressing the spot with a dry rag. You can also shake a layer of baking soda over the area to absorb the moisture so it doesn't seep into your sofa cushions and vacuum up baking soda after it dries.

Finally, do one last round of germ-killing and deodorizing. HAVEN's Air & Linen spray is perfect for this task, but if you don't have any on hand, grab a bottle of distilled white vinegar. Top the bottle with a sprayer or decant the vinegar into a clean, dry spray bottle. Spray vinegar over the entire surface of the couch and let it dry. This will remove any lingering odor and bacteria. Don't worry, the smells fades quickly. Now just deodorize and vacuum your sofa regularly so you only have to do small, manageable clean-ups from now on.

Now I think you deserve a big bottle of vino and an at-home movie night, friend!

Side note: I love infusing vinegar with fresh herbs to mask the natural scent of the vinegar. Fresh basil is my favorite. Simply wash and dry a couple handfuls of basil leaves and bruise them to release their scent. Place the bruised leaves and vinegar in a sealed jar for 2-3 days to fully infuse. Strain the leaves and you'll be left with some pretty kickass vinegar that doesn't smell so, you know, vinegar-y.

I have tape that is stuck to my window -- it's been there since I first moved in, and I can't get it off. 

Ah, don't you just love all the little things people leave behind for future renters? When we moved into our place, the previous tenants left us an enormous box of Euro-brand Ovaltine, some other weird, unidentifiable snack food and a six-pack of beer. The beer made up for any annoyance, so I can't complain.

Lucky for you, tape is very easy to remove once you know what to do. My favorite tool for adhesive removal is a heat fun (Typo. Keeping it. A heat gun is fun.) but coming in at a close second is a bottle of any citrus essential oil. Grapefruit is my favorite. Place 3-4 drop of essential oil on a cotton ball and rub the oil over the entire surface of the tape. Let sit for 10 minutes and the tape should easily peel off as the oil breaks down the gummy adhesive.

If any goo is left behind on the window, rub the adhesive with the oil-soaked cotton ball until it's all removed. Wash the oil off your window and, voila, a perfect view!

Note: Essential oils shouldn't be be used undiluted on the skin because they're very potent, so wear some rubber gloves.

Thank you to those readers who submitted these great questions and I look forward hearing more. Feel free to include pictures of your problem project, as I'd love to feature them in a before/after segment.

If you have any helpful hints to add to my tips, please let us hear them in the comments. Thanks for reading!

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The Honey Cult

Are you ready to have your mind blown? If you're like me, what I'm about to tell you is going to make your wallet weep for all the times its shelled out $15, $30, $60+ dollars for a fancy soap, face wash, cream, spot treatment or the millions of other things we're told will stop the hands of time or end skin ailments forever. Then you get home to find there are no miracles, most of it just makes your skin worse.

Even more annoying, cosmetics have some of the highest mark-ups of any industry, sometimes up to an incredible 600%. But turn over any tiny vial and you'll find a list of chemicals so long, your eyes will cross. Most of it is some combination of dirt/minerals and synthetic oils or waxes, which don't seem like good things to slather all over your delicate skin, right? I'm in the "less is more" camp when it comes to just about everything and, with my face, I'm even more choosy. But even all the genuinely natural products I tried really seemed best formulated for normal, balanced skin.

So, I ended my hunt for product and set out to find my own natural, DIY solution. After years of searching, I finally struck gold and just in time for my wedding later this year. I'd heard of washing your face with honey before and wrote it off as too good to be true, but now I just can't help myself -- I've joined the Honey Cult!  I now use honey as my daily skin care and it has my skin looking great and totally on the mend. Best of all, honey is good for any and every skin type, from the most sensitive face to those battling acne or eczema.


A little backstory! There's documented evidence that humans across the globe have been using honey for 8,000 years. In some cultures, it was so special it was used as currency. Cleopatra famously took milk and honey baths to stay youthful looking (the pitcher I've decanted my honey into above is a nod to this Queen Bee) and she was definitely onto something because honey is:

  • An Antimicrobial & Antiseptic
    • Its bacteria destroying properties are so amazing that medical grade honey is becoming widely used to heal wounds in hospitals around the country.
  • A Humectant
    • Honey draws moisture from the air straight to the skin, making it an excellent moisturizer.
  • An Antioxidant
    • Antioxidants are responsible for the quick regeneration of tissue and honey is packed with them, so it helps skin stay elastic and better-protected against sun damage.

Cleopatra

I only started my honey face washing regimen a couple of weeks ago and am already pretty blown away. My skin feels incredibly smooth and all my little imperfections began to heal after only the first day. Added bonus: I haven't had to use a drop of moisturizer, even though my skin has been bone dry all winter. I know it sounds crazy but the honey really does it all. I'm hoping to retire most of my make-up by Summer and just rock good, clean skin.

The best honey you can use is the least processed kind, ideally raw honey. If you have trouble with acne, Manuka honey is known to have the strongest antimicrobial properties. You could also use regular squeeze bear honey, it's just won't have as high a concentration of the good stuff. You can get the rawest honey available by finding your local beekeeper. Your apiarist might even give you a tour of the miracle happening inside the hive. Bees are a precious resource that are currently in crisis and supporting local beekeepers is a great way to help.

Here are your honey cleansing basics!

  • There are a few ways you can use honey on your skin. Ideally, use it twice a day. Straight honey should be used to clean a make-up free face, so I use this once in the morning. Then, I make a simple variation at night to remove make-up, exfoliate or both.
  • To make your life easier, have a dedicated bottle of honey for your bathroom. It's no fun slipping and sliding your way to the kitchen mid-shower to grab the honey you forgot. I have sink-side honey in small glass pitcher (topped with a cork to keep out particles), as well as a plastic squeeze bottle of honey for the shower.
  • Because honey's so sticky, be sure to keep your hair out of the way if you're washing your face at the sink.
  • Remember, you need to use this regimen for two weeks to fully clear your pores and start the see the best results. Don't freak if you see some imperfections popping up, it's just your skin rebalancing and releasing toxins that you're drawing to the surface. Things will calm down.

MORNING RITUAL

Honey Only - Gentle Face Wash

  1. Rinse your face well with warm water.
  2. Pour a quarter-sized amount of honey into a wet palm and rub hands together to warm honey for application. You'll be surprised how easy it is to manage.
  3. Rub the honey over your entire face and massage into skin for a minute or two.
  4. Rinse with warm water and finish with a splash of cool water to close pores. 

EVENING RITUAL

Honey & Castile Soap - Make-Up Remover

  1. Rinse your face well with warm water.
  2. In the palm of your hand, add 1-2 drops of unscented Castile soap to a quarter-sized amount of honey. Rub between palms to work up lather (there won't be a ton of lather).
  3. Apply to entire face and work in to remove all make-up.
  4. Rinse with warm water and finish with a splash of cool water to close pores. 
  5. If skin feels dry, briefly wash face again with honey-only and decrease the amount of soap you use on your next wash until you find a good blend. You can also use preservative-free, pure aloe vera gel as a light moisturizer if the honey just isn't doing it for your skin. I haven't had this problem yet, though.

AND / OR

Honey & Grounds - Exfoliator

Every few days, add an exfoliant to your honey-only or honey-soap cleanser. Baking soda, finely ground oats or almonds (grind these yourself in a food processor) and nutmeg (my favorite) are all excellent, gentle exfoliators. 

Nutmeg is especially good if you struggle with acne, as it has a wonderful, fine texture that clears the pores, plus it has antimicrobial and anti-inflammatory properties. It's also great for reducing the appearance of scars. We all have a seemingly endless bottle of Nutmeg sitting in our cabinets leftover from the holiday eggnog, right? It smells amazing and feels great, so put your bottle to good use the rest of the year. This narrow-neck bottle makes it easy to shake a little out into my palm but most spice bottles already have built-in shakers.

  1. Rinse your face well with warm water.
  2. Pour a quarter-sized amount of honey or honey-soap into your palm and sprinkle your exfoliator right on top. Rub between palms and scrub your face well (but using a gentle hand) for a minute or so.
  3. Rinse with warm water and finish with a splash of cool water to close pores. 
  4. NOTE: If you've used baking soda as your exfoliant, you'll need to balance the pH of your skin afterward with a toner. The best way to do this is to put 3-4 drops of apple cider vinegar on a cotton ball and apply to entire face. Get raw, unfiltered vinegar for best results. It won't smell great at first but quickly dissipates.

ONCE A WEEK OR SO

Honey & Clay - Oil Absorbing Mask

To absorb excess oil and draw out deep impurities, mix your honey with an oil-absorbing clay and apply as a face mask every week or so. Bentonite, Kaolin, Fuller's Earth or French Green Clay will work well in this recipe. Fuller's Earth is best for those looking to treat acne. Most of these clays can be found online at Mountain Rose Herbs or your local health food store. I did these masks twice a week when I first started.

  1. To make honey easier to mix, warm it by placing the honey bottle in a hot water bath for 1-2 minutes.
  2. Add 1.5 tsp of warmed honey to a glass bowl.
  3. Sprinkle 1/2-1 tsp of clay over honey. 
  4. Add 1 tsp of warm water and mix all ingredients well. I like to use a soft, wide paintbrush to apply this to my face. It feels so relaxing and any excuse is a good excuse for grown-up face painting.
  5. Let mask dry for 15-20 minutes.
  6. Rinse with warm water and finish with a splash of cool water to close pores. 

AND / OR

Honey-Only - Extra TLC Mask
  1. Pour a silver dollar sized dollop of honey into palm.
  2. Smooth honey in a thin layer over dry face.
  3. Leave for 10-15 minutes.
  4. Rinse with warm water and finish with a splash of cool water to close pores.

Are you drinking the Koolaid yet?? The best part about this is that it really doesn't cost a thing to try. Rummage through those cabinets, grab your honeypot and let me know how it goes! I'd love to answer any questions or hear about your custom variations in the comment thread...if you can stop licking your fingers long enough to type!


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Clean Suede Naturally


I recently wore my beloved suede clogs out with friends and almost immediately had revelers' spilled drinks sloshing between my toes. This is pretty standard in crowded NYC bars (or any bar, anywhere for that matter) but my heart completely sank when I found this mess waiting the next day.

What. A. Bummer.


Thankfully, no special, chemical-loaded cleaner is required since I found a natural alternative that's 100x easier and, best of all, emits no noxious fumes.

I set to work and grabbed:

  • Clean Towels
  • A Rubber Eraser
  • A Stiff Bristle Brush 

Make sure your rubber eraser is nice and gummy and remove any pencil lead from the surface by rubbing it vigorously over a clean piece of paper. 

Pretty much any natural bristle brush will get the job done, as you just want something that will brush up the nap of the suede and sweep away loose particles. I didn't have a shoe brush, so I improvised with this clean scrub brush and it worked great.


The first part of the process will immediately improve the look of your suede by removing any surface dirt and refreshing the nap of the leather. 

Brush the suede thoroughly with a clean, dry rag. Make sure you rub the suede in many different directions to ensure you're agitating the nap completely and getting all the dirt. Go over stubborn spots a little more vigorously with your cloth.


Step one just reduced my stress level significantly and got off the majority of the spots, leaving all the dirty evidence on my rag.


But there's still plenty of small, set water stains to tackle.


So, out comes the gum eraser.


Rub the eraser in a circular motion over each stain.


Use your bristle brush to remove the eraser rubber and loosened dirt. Repeat on all stains.


And that, friends, is one clean pair of shoes.


Suede, while durable and beautiful, is expensive. This impossibly easy, natural way to clean it will save many an item and many a dollar through the years.

I used HAVEN Polish to clean and condition the wooden soles and now these babies are ready to pound some more pavement.


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HAVEN Cleans // Before & After


I must admit that I have a strange love of Before & After pictures. I get pretty nerdy over a good transformation!

What better way to indulge than to show you a few of the ways HAVEN products can can be put to great use around the home.

POLISH is definitely one of the products I use the most. Coconut oil is an incredibly versatile natural ingredient and can shine up scuffed leather, wood (finished and unfinished), painted surfaces, smudges on stainless steel, rubber, car interiors and more. This special formulation restores luster to just about anything -- who knew one bottle could do so much?

SCRUB is also one of those great products that does more than you ever imagined. Just one canister will not only scour and clean just about every hard surface, it also melts tarnish off of copper and brass and adds a sparkle to dull stainless steel with the power of all natural fruit acids.


Check out all the amazing ways you can use each HAVEN products on our PRODUCT GUIDE page!

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Creative Reuse // Organizing With Everyday Items


This week, I'm dedicating a little time to the clever ways you can reuse the simplest things from daily life. After you begin making an effort to reduce how much waste leaves your home, you start looking at everything that comes through the door a little differently. Coming up with new ways to use basic items can be really satisfying, especially if these simple things actually make the dark areas of your home a little lighter -- a dull pantry, linen closet, laundry room or under-sink cabinet.  

I'd stashed a couple of items I thought I could find a reuse for and organized the madness beneath my kitchen sink with them last weekend. The results are great and cleaning isn't feeling like a chore at all these days. 

I was also able to further streamline how many products I actually need to clean. I have my HAVEN workhorses and a few other simple products that get the job done -- vinegar, hydrogen peroxide, etc. -- as well as a couple of new formulas I'm currently making and testing. I rarely find the need to buy much else, so it keeps costs way down.

For extra storage, I used a couple of durable HAVEN cotton canvas totes, which make great cleaning caddies or organizers for stray grocery bags, extra sponges, trash bags and much more. I also used:

  • Clementine Box
    • It's the season for perfect clementines, so these little crates are everywhere. They're extremely simple but sturdy enough to serve a few purposes well and are good for organizing.
  • Wooden Wine Box
    • Wine in a box is super for parties. This year, this little box housed enough wine to keep all the glasses at Friendsgiving 2011: The Year I Fried a Turkey filled the entire evening. It also came in this nicely built wooden box that slides open to make a hideaway for unsightly scrubbers.

The other thing I recommend you welcome into your life is a heat gun. There are an endless number of things you can do around the house with this tool -- removing labels, removing wallpaper, shrink wrapping and much more. Imagine how much more you'd reuse if you could easily get industrial-strength label glue off of everything! 

It's really fun to use but always heed the warnings and use the tool carefully, as it gets extremely hot.


First, I cleared everything out from underneath my cabinets and cleaned thoroughly.

Then I set to work on getting all the labels and glue off my wooden crates. 


Using a heat gun and metal scraper, I quickly heated the adhesive and scraped all the paper and glue right off both boxes.


Do wear work gloves when removing gobs of glue like this. You don't want this stuff to burn your skin.


The cleaned clementine box is great for storing away sturdy shopping bags to reuse. 


Then I hid away all the not-so-pretty items in my wine box. I always disinfect and keep old toothbrushes and use them to clean grout and tight spaces. I keep a soft-bristled brush around and use it with a little warm water and SOAP to clean jewelry gently but effectively.


I fill my totes with extra sponges, spare spray bottles, trash bags and more. 


We reuse grocery bags a lot, as well. In New York, it's hard to get away from these flimsy plastic things. I'm now trying to start every checkout conversation with "I don't need a bag, thanks" and it's definitely reducing how many I end up bringing home.


In goes all the organized storage, as well as my product. Having everything accessible but not totally on display is great.

Last but not least, I like to keep my laundry products simple. I keep around unscented, eco-friendly detergent and a bottle of distilled white vinegar for the rinse cycle. Vinegar is an excellent deodorizer and germ killer after the vinegar smell fades. I like to keep some in a spray bottle, which makes it easier to use around the house. To add a nice laundry scent, I simply spray our clean clothing with a few spritzes of AIR & LINEN, which lends a really fresh, botanical Lavender scent while cutting static. Felted wool dryer balls also help cut static naturally and are much more natural and less wasteful than dryer sheets.


It's really nice to get an early start on Spring cleaning! Tackling these projects one at a time makes seasonal organizing much more manageable. Plus, finding creative ways to reuse basic items keeps me excited about consuming thoughtfully and reminds me to keep thinking out of the box when it comes to waste reduction in my space.

Have you reused something ordinary in a creative way lately? Share your ideas in the comments!

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Simple, Natural Air Freshener



A great way to freshen your space before you have guests is to place a few drops of your favorite organic essential oil  onto a cotton ball and vacuum it up. As you finish cleaning your floors, the vacuum's exhaust will pick up the scent of the oil and diffuse it into the air. It's so simple but works really well.

This is also a great alternative to using commercial air fresheners like Lysol or Febreze, which contain an incredible variety of toxic chemicals that you end up spraying all over your home. Air fresheners are known to cause severe allergic reactions, respiratory issues, headaches and other very unpleasant problems. I recently read an article on the hazards from Grist and they outline it pretty well:

The EPA says the air fresheners’ chemical cocktail has four main ingredients (none of them, sadly, rum or grenadine): formaldehyde, petroleum distillates, p- dichlorobenzene, and aerosol propellants. As you note, any “natural”-ifying of earth-unfriendly aerosol propellants still leaves the three other offenders:

  • Petroleum distillates, with their oil-intensive production and ill effects on the respiratory system; and
  • p-dichlorobenzene, a hazardous waste “reasonably be anticipated to be a carcinogen” that gives mothballs and urinal cakes their lovely scent (and is, incidentally, also a registered pesticide).

Are you as freaked out as I am right now? It drives me nuts that it's legal to put ingredients like this into products. If you're interested in taking action, The Environmental Working Group has a really great Twitter feed about current issues and legislation regarding toxins and chemicals in our products. I follow their Toxics Team @EWGtoxics for the latest!

We'll also be doing some tweeting of our own @brooklynHAVEN. Follow us for more Small Steps weekly tips!

Looking for a germ-killing, odor-neutralizing room spray without the gunk? Check out our Organic Lavender AIR & LINEN. Great for air, hard surfaces and fabric!

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Start Fresh in 2012 - Chemical-Free Resolution

The New Year is the perfect time to take stock and make sure you're surrounded by things that enrich your life. As you're making your resolutions for this year, consider going chemical-free in 2012. A lifestyle free of harmful toxins will have positive, long-term effects. You'll improve your health and well-being, save money and reduce your environmental footprint, which are all great ways to start the year.

Going chemical-free is easier than you think! Here are tips to help you get started.

Don't wait to use up those toxic products. 
Work together with friends and neighbors to gather and properly dispose of a larger quantity of unwanted chemicals. Lead the bandwagon to go chemical-free and help those close to you easily dispose of their toxic products. 

Go to Earth911.org and search for a center that safely processes hazardous waste near your town and organize a product drop-off. Remember to call the center to collect important details about your drop-off before you drive there (how much can you bring, are there any products they can't process, etc.) Then, encourage people to look at their product labels and remove items that read POISON, WARNING, DANGER, CAUTION and TOXIC.


Learn more about product ingredients. 
Labeling regulations for natural products are very loose and even most eco-cleaners use low-toxic chemicals with technical names, making it difficult to know just how natural a product is. Luckily, there are great resources to help you decipher those ingredients!

The Environmental Working Group's website Skin Deep Cosmetics Database has a wealth of information about the safety of ingredients commonly placed directly on skin. The US Department of Health & Human Services also has a site dedicated to posting the Material Safety Data Sheets for hundreds of household products -- just plug in the product name and explore potential hazards. Shopping for real natural alternatives becomes much easier when you're informed and can spot problem ingredients.


Don't forget about the chemicals in your food. 
From pesticides to processed ingredients, synthetics are peppered into so many things we ingest. Eating thoughtfully is a way you can reduce your chemical intake immediately. 

Processed food is one of the worst things for your waistline and overall health. These foods are high in fat, sodium, sugar and chemical preservatives but are the cheapest foods available. This means that America's preventable disease rates are growing rapidly as a result of what we're eating and many of these chemicals have incredibly harmful effects on our bodies. 

Adopting a diet that leans heavily on whole fruits, vegetables and grains keeps chemicals out of the equation and helps you keep your other resolution to slim down. Buy organic produce whenever you can and always use a produce wash to rinse lingering pesticides off before preparing. If you eat meat, start treating it as a special occasion dish and buy products that are raised humanely and are free of hormones and antibiotics that can be passed along to you. Buying whole foods in larger quantities also helps you reduce the dramatic waste associated with pre-packaged items, which leads me to...


Reduce your consumption. 
Stemming the flow of waste from your home into landfills and cutting your reliance on petroleum-based plastics is one of the best gifts we can give future generations and goes hand-in-hand with adopting a chemical-free lifestyle.

In addition to basics like recycling, buying bulk product refills, reusing sturdy containers around your home and cutting your use of disposable items like paper towels are a few ways you can stem the flow of trash out of your household. Our Sustainable Haven blog is dedicated to sharing the many ways you can turn your home into a natural space with limited household waste.


Get involved! 
Research environmental legislative priorities for your state in 2012 and start talking to your representatives. Whether big or small, voting in all of your local elections is such an important part of getting politicians in office who've demonstrated a commitment to protecting our Planet. Show up for Town Hall meetings and debates and communicate with candidates about their positions so you can make informed voting decisions. If a politician isn’t making you happy, let them know! Big change won't happen if our elected officials aren't adequately representing our beliefs and values. Exercise your rights and actively stand up for the environmental causes you believe in!


READER TIPS
We want to hear from you! If you've made some changes (big or small) to rid your home of chemicals or reduce your consumption, we'd love to feature your ideas on our blog. Outline in the comments section below or email pictures of finished projects to info@havenclean.com!


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